Just Joking

Has anybody ever siad something hurtful and then said just joking? Have you noticed that even when they say this it doesn't take away the hurt that it leaves you feeling. I personally hate it when people do this because sometimes it just isn't funny and some people just don't get that. If someone does this tell them um that really isn't funny never apologize because YOU didn't do ANYTHING. people who do this often aren't aware of what they're saying. Well some are theres nothing you can do about that so just ao what is possible for you. Anyway joking is fun sometimes but you must always take into fact that it may be offensive to some people.